im dating a girl who is great to me but she has the most disrepectful bratty son i ever seen i dont know what to do she has taken him to the dr and everything nothing has worked he back talks us both hits his mom and he is only 10
There are probably a lot of reasons to why he is playing up you didn't give much info so I'll try and help with what I can. I like how you included 'she has taken him to the doctor' but didn't mention what the outcome was, so I will assume it didn't go the way the pair of you had hoped and he wasn't given Ritalin like the millions of other kids who have over the past few years suddenly developed ADHD/ADD ¬_¬ Does he see his dad? When does he mainly play up, is it more when you are around or is it it equal, that you have been told about because it could be jealousy. If you are serious about the chick and wanna prove it to him, try spending a few of your dates doing something with him, or other days take him to the park or something else that he would enjoy do something he likes, just prove you're not a shitty guy who's just there to fuck his mum, if you are just there to fuck his mum then, try seeing her when he isn't around, like at a relatives or a friends. Kids just want attention and if you're taking his attention that he gets from his mum away from him, then he will hate you and act up.
Or you might just wanna shoot the little fucker and everything gets resolved on it's own...
yes dr hasnt helped and ive played with him alot and we do stuff he wants to all the time and no matter what its never good enough. also he does act like it even when im not around. only time he is good is if he is getting his way 100 percent he sees his dad and says he wants to live with him and his dad bad mouths his mom and says shes the prouble that the kids fine his dad mistreat his mom when married verbally and physically they divorced when he was 3 hope enough info
Beat the shit out of him. That's why kids are spoiled little brats. Putting them in timeout really shows them you're boss huh?
My current live in has a son who has similar problems, so one day after putting up with it his back talk and attitude for a while.. So one day I went to his room and locked the door.. then I told him quiet honestly I did not appreciate his attitude and disrespect and was not going to put up with it anymore.. I was going to give him three days to change and behave, if he did not, then I would come back to his room. If I did .. I would not be talking... and I would come back every day .. for a month.. or as long as it took every night and I would hurt him in ways he had never heard of, that would not show a mark on his body... so no body would believe him if he ratted me out.. Then I quietly left... He knew I was a marine and had spent time in Iraq and Afghanistan... He never ever uttered a word to me in disrespect again. and held his tongue around his mother.. I doubt the little fucker likes me at all, but I do not care,,, I would sooner kill his ass than worry about it.
>>314922 Mikey ur a kick ass individual, mind games on a little smart ass is all ways better than bruises or broken bones.
>>314922 You are a good disciplinarian.
>>314922
Beat some sense into him. Repeat the process until it sticks.
If you can kill him and not get caught, do that. Children go missing all the time, you could just kill him and dispose his body somewhere and people will think some pervert pedo took him.
Ok, honestly, all the people saying "kill him/shoot him" etc etc are fuckin idiots, probably little brats just like this kid you're having issues with. You mentioned that the kid's father abused his mother when they were together. Chances are the kid saw this and it became 'normal' - now he thinks that he's allowed to act that way, he's mimicking his father's behavior by harassing his mother, and if it continues he's going to grow up to be just like his dad - a no good wifebeater that will probably wind up in jail for it, or worse yet continue the line by having kids of his own who behave the same way themselves. The kid needs discipline. You need to tell his mom to slap that kid next time he shows any sort of disrespect - chances are he'll be completely taken aback by the action. Right now he thinks it's ok to abuse his mother, his mother is the one that needs to show him otherwise by standing her ground - you doing anything will only make the situation worse, and as you arent one of his parents yourself you can be charged with assaulting a minor by doing anything. Parents have the right to discipline their children within reasonable bounds. The problem is that there are so many whacko cases of child abuse charges nowdays that parents become too afraid to punish their kids, and they wind up being spoiled brats who think they can get away with anything.
